Generosity, eccentricity, egocentricity.
This kiss is something given for the pleasure of the person who gives it.
Often the white cheeks of the girls and children suffer under this show of "ownership".
When you don't pay attention it becomes second nature.
Suffering through this keeps the interest but only suffering through this do you find the interest.
When the kiss does not come from Venus or Amour it just is a show of power.
Whether you want it or not when they give you a gift, it is a positive action.
Its refusal can turn it into something negative.